It’s hard to control ourselves and our emotions in a proper and God-honoring way.
Our culture tells us to let go and wear our hearts on our sleeves, to fall hopelessly in and out of love, regardless of the consequences. There are many ways to approach having a crush in a manner that honors God.
All you want to do is think about him and dream about him. Make certain your spiritual walk does not suffer and decline when you have a crush.
I’m not going to deny that this is difficult because I know from personal experience.
That woman may be your mom, your teacher, or a woman at your church.
If you are a Christian, then a non-Christian guy is completely out of the question, no matter how cute or sweet he is.The mind is very susceptible to irrational thinking when you are infatuated with someone. You think about imaginary situations with your crush.Usually it starts out as innocent things like conversations, but then it can cross over into more serious fantasies like making out with him or even having sex. The Bible says, in Romans 12:2, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the` will of God” (emphasis added).The Bible also reminds us that “the heart is deceitful above all things” (Jeremiah 17:9).If your heart is not focused on honoring God, then it will lead you to do and think all kinds of evil.