If they mention their favorite vacation was skydiving in New Zealand, Patt says they likely love thrills and are pretty spontaneous.But on the other hand, if their favorite type of vacation is relaxing on a beach with endless drinks, they might be more low key with a relaxed personality.
’ to make sure you have an accurate picture before coming to any conclusions,” Patt adds. Eat whatever they want and never gain any weight, ever? “When asking a lighthearted, playful questions, you’ll not only get a good idea of their humorous side, but you’ll also have a better understanding of their character,” Patt notes.
If they’re an only child, is that a dealbreaker if you come from a big family?
Even if someone is outgoing and friendly, they may not find it easy to talk about themselves. Karin Anderson Abrell, tells Bustle instead of asking direct questions about them, put someone else into the equation.
And maybe most importantly, it’ll let you know if your interests are compatible.“People typically hang out with people who are similar to themselves, so if you start hearing of activities that you would never ever do then that is a big warning sign,” she says.
“If the person says that they don't have anything fun they like to do, that is also a big warning sign.