I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.TOO FAST Maybe you're divorced, newly separated, or have been single forever.To me, that's a turn-off." GF #2: "Some men don't want to invest the time it takes getting to know you.If you don't sleep with them fast enough, they get frustrated and lose interest." GF #3: "Online daters, especially the older ones, are like kids in a candy store, not ever giving anyone a chance because there's always someone else." My Advice: Slow down.
The point is, hold back from dating until you're healed. GF #1: "Nothing is a bigger turn-on to a woman in her 50s than a man that makes her feel like she's the best thing that ever happened to him." GF #2: "Be honest with her and don't lead her on.You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.Guys that are too fast getting in are probably going to be too fast getting out.And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.