Off the bat, I’m thinking of the Maroon 5 song, “Unkiss Me.” The point of that song is that its singer, Adam Levine, wants to go back in time and avoid getting hurt.
But with shy men and women, the problem is often the opposite: They feel uncomfortable going out on a limb and kissing their date or making a move to begin with.
But it can be hard for a shy individual to feel super cozy with someone new and to start the conversation as if these two individuals have known each other for years.
For shy men and women, however, putting themselves in a risky or vulnerable position with others feels uncomfortable and provokes a lot of anxiety.While you can’t change your personality on an ongoing basis, you can certainly push your shy personality to the limit for 60 minutes and initiate lots of good conversation topics. Overt flirting can actually be a turnoff for some, but a little playful flirting can go a long way.Shy people often get too stuck in their heads to relax and let their flirting come out.The good news is that these behaviors, while they can thwart a successful dating life if left unchecked, can totally be changed if you make an effort.Check out the shy behaviors below and see if any of them apply to you. The key to dating is to avoid taking the whole thing too seriously.