This is because it’s so easy to meet Vietnamese girls through social circles and Vietnamese dating sites (as long as it’s not your girlfriend’s social circle).
Relationship game undergoes a lot of testing here, as are a man’s true commitment to his girl.
It’s the site I always use when I fly in, I setup dates with around 6-7 girls a few weeks before hand, and end up sleeping with at least half. Do keep in min that some girls will flake (perhaps 10-20%), but that’s normal.
Around 99% of are regular Vietnamese girls, and 1% are hookers. Just setup a profile with 3-4 pictures, be friendly and just casually ask if they would like to meet up for a coffee or dinner when you land. Just set up a number of dates and you will be fine. Even though Vietnam is considered South East Asia, and thought of in the same boat with the likes of Thailand or Indonesia, the country has far more in common with China than those regions.
Ensuring things stay simple and makes it a massive turn on.
While it is trippy to experience dynamics as they were in the 50’s, the girl will not hesitate to get vicious, and that includes sleeping with other men or seriously fucking your shit up at home.
This is due to 1) high population 2) language 3) it’s closed-off society and should approach the country with the same idea.
Of course, your true goal are always your own and you shouldn’t feel like acting like a white night if you don’t want too.
Now, I have had various experiences as have my friends, but there are two ways to react when a girl “tests” you. In the more communistic north, which is where I spent 9 months of my time, getting laid is *hard*.
This includes ignoring you completely for 2 days, flaking on a major date or commitment, or even claiming you stole something of theirs just to see how you react. This is due to how close they are with China both in terms of location and contract-like relationship culture.
Now obviously, that’s only how it appears to us, and what they really want is for you to ask them to be your girl friend (they always want it to be formal).
But for a player like myself this is an absolutely no no proposal.